Feedback – focus on model of success

Feedback is an art form I will forever be trying to figure out. One recent lesson learned that sticks out is a very subtle difference in approach when expectations aren’t being met. There’s one question I’ve challenged myself to keep coming back to. When expectations weren’t met, am I providing feedback by telling them what…

The Good in Youth Sports

As we wrap up a fun ride in 9U baseball this year, I can’t help but think about the reputation youth sports have gotten lately. I see posts about dads trying to live vicariously through their son and yelling at them after a bad game. I hear stories of fans screaming at each other or…

Create Clarity

Out of the two scenarios below, which team do you think will create a better game plan? Team 1 is given the following information from leadership: Team 2 is given the following information from leadership: While both Team 1 and Team 2 have a lot to work through on how to drive better client retention,…

What questions are you answering?

All of us grew up in our own unique way and faced our own challenges. As a child, some of my biggest questions to conquer included: If these were the questions I was focused on solving as a kid, I’d say I’m one of the lucky ones. But as time progressed, so did the questions…

Power of compounding

In the retirement industry we see it repeatedly. An employee works hard saving for retirement and then has an event take place and all the work saving for the future crashes. Take for example someone that works 5 years at their employer and accumulates $20k in their 401(k). At that 5-year mark they decide to…

Consistency

Have you ever watched the World’s Strongest Man event of the vehicle pull? When I mention vehicle pull, we’re not talking about some small electric car but instead these men are pulling firetrucks, trams, and even planes. It seems like it’s not even humanly possible. If you’ve ever had a chance to watch this event,…

Thank You Teachers!

The school year came to a close and while my kids love the idea of freedom, being bums in the morning, and nonstop outdoor playtime in the summer, it was interesting to see how sad they were for their final day. They genuinely enjoyed their teachers and the environment their educators created for them to…

Why we need stress

Recently I came across a story about the University of Arizona Biosphere 2. This research facility’s mission is to explore and teach about Earth and its living systems. It was originally built to be a closed ecological system intended to test viability for living in outer space and now has evolved to a variety of…

Letter to Me

In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, I want to toss out a different idea to embrace the importance of what happens between our ears. Many have heard of the concept of writing a letter to your past self. I love the idea and how it provides time to reflect on lessons learned, the experiences…